
Social Networking: technological blessing or insidious curse?
Online social networking is no new fad, but mobile social networking (Blackberry, Iphone applications) are the latest craze in the ever growing trend. Everywhere I go - on the train, in class and at work - people are buried in their Smart Phones, relaying messages to their peers, thus helping to contribute to the information loop.
Technology has made humans far more productive than ever before. Information is open, unlimited and comes to the public eye almost instantaneously. However, this information is not always censored for privacy purposes. Do we really need so much access to each others personal lives? As a student, a writer and a fashion-whatever-the-hell-else I am I feel it's very important to keep a digital identity and maintain social networks. The internet is an endless source of opportunity and I've managed to have many an adventure in my digital time. At 13, I started with AOL Chat to Yahoo, but my love of all things interweb grew into an obsession with communities like mIRC networks, Livejournal communities, esoteric/elitest forum spots and the dreaded multi-player gaming communities. By participating in these networks I gained access to further information, expertise and, most importantly, people/friendships. Then along comes Facebook, Myspace, Last.FM, StumbleUpon, Twitter, Foursquare to create more efficient modes of communication to help keep in touch with my both my 2D (online) and 3D (IRL) networks. For someone who enjoys her privacy, my social networking memberships have opened my like a book, a significant part of my growing identity.

Luckily, I am not alone. Worldwide, over 300 Million people have an active Facebook account. And, did you know that over 30 Million people now have a Twitter account (FYI, that's almost the population of Canada). Researchers at the University of Guelph in Southern Ontario found that social interactions on popular social networking site Facebook caused communication breakdowns between friends and significant others. And, let's face it, suspicion, jealousy and the general feeling of being ignored affect every one of us and social networking sites do not always work to avoid stirring these emotions. For instance, someone ignores your friend request; a "friend" who spams self-serving-style messages or invitations; a girlfriend is tagged in a picture full of strange males looking a little too happy; a boyfriend befriending nothing but attractive females; a "friend" who constantly ignores or deletes your messages are all examples of actions that create feelings of anxiety, apprehension, and ultimately conflict. On a personal level, I myself had to hide/unfriend Love once we broke up. The break-up hurt, but watching him actively engaging in social networking while I sat around feeling miserable conjured even worse feelings (one's that didn't want to let me keep the day's lunch down).

Accessibility = Good! Over-exposure = Bad!
Today, I
recognize a different trend forming. The same individuals that once bought into and enthusiastically participated in online social networking are becoming fed-up with the consequences of accessibility and unplugging themselves from the system. You know, "Fuck Facebook", "Fuck Twitter" and "Fuck fake friends"- all that kind of jazz. In fact, in the last month, 3 of my close friends deactivated their FB accounts. Social murder. Me? Although I try to limit the amount of time I spend connected to the network, I like the idea of reaching out and having so many ideas and inspiration (positive or negative) around me. Blame the curious writer in me, but I still can't disconnect without the dreaded feeling of missing out. Interweb, you had me at
Hello.
Eventually, the wave of anti-social networking will reach the shore of realities and
have to be addressed. I have yet to meet a Luddite, so I expect that people will adapt to new philosophies of accessibility/privacy, but social networking, my friends, is here to stay.
(Source:
Image1,
NYT,
Guelph, )